Positive Thinking is
the key to live a Happy Life. If you are positive in your daily work and daily life
then you will surely love your life so much that you will never escape from it.
But here, the
question arrives that “How to stay Positive in life when life comes in front of
you and push you down every time?” Well, the answer to that question is in the
question itself. When life tries to push you down every time, then at that
moment all you have to do is stop complaining and carry on with your work. No
matter how hard it seems but when you cultivate a habit that every time when
you are in difficulty you will stand up and fight it. Then there will come a
time when life will get fed up to even bother you.
If we notice
carefully, then there is nothing difficult in life, you can experience this by
yourself. Do you know why some people find something difficult but that same
thing is easy to other person? The answer is simple, the person who feels
something easy, is positive and will think positive about that work no matter
what, while the first person who was finding it difficult will not.
Let’s take a
very common example which you all might had experienced or will experience at least once in lifetime.
Remember the time, when there is final exam in just few days and you have to
study for a subject. Then you all get tensed due to memorizing
things and whether you will pass or get good marks or not. You might be
thinking, “Yeah, that we know, so what?” Well, here if you analyze properly you
will get to know few things. First, when you are not positive about your
studies, no matter how much you study for that subject you will always feel
that you had missed something or you don’t remember what you had learned
properly. Resulting in getting tensed and you tend to revise those topics again
and again and again. If you ask yourself just one question in this situation
that why I’m doing this when I had already learned that topic? The Answer will
come that you are not confident about your answer and why you are not confident
because there is negativity filled in you. Negative thoughts make you
worry about it and is wasting your precious time. What are those negative
thoughts? They are thoughts like:
- Whether I will Pass in this subject or not?
- Whether I will score good marks or not?
- What will my parents think if I fail or get less marks?
- This subject is tough and it is out of understanding.
These thoughts
will only act as a rocking chair, it will keep you busy but you won’t get any
good result out of it. You have to think again about this situation. Can these
thoughts get you a Perfect score on your Marksheet? No. Then stop thinking
like that. You have to start working instead of thinking, in order to get good
result. If you want to think only then you can try to be positive. Secondly, if
you are positive in this situation then even if you study on the very last day
just before your exam then also you will be able to score a decent marks in
that exam. Why? Because you were positive and you were not busy thinking about
those useless thoughts. Your only focus was on studying that subject and not on
thoughts. Positive thinking plays an important role here. The person who is positive, will tend to learn better than the ones who were not positive, even if he/she
learned less than everyone out there. But still whatever they learned about the
subject, they will remember it. Positive thinking can do wonders which many
people don’t know.
Here, many of
you may be thinking that in life it is not easy to stay positive all the time.
To them I will say that staying positive in life is not easy and it
is an illusion. While staying positive is also an illusion. But
the illusion which you choose now will become your reality in future. That is, if you try to be positive now then being positive in the future will be easy. While, on
the other hand if you chose the illusion which says that staying positive is
not easy then in near future you will make your life even more difficult.
Choice is in your hand, whether you want to live a better life by thinking
positive or not. Nothing is difficult until you think it is difficult.
Lastly, I will end up with a quote saying,
